Saturday, June 13, 2009

Friendship with scar

What is your priority in life? Love, Family, Career and Friendship. The answer is to balance them. I know it is a challenge...Thus I make decision based on timing & importance.

I know some friends who prioritise love as their first priority. I have a friend whose calls kept coming in from her bf everytime I go out with her. I feel irritated. Thus you get a feeling that you go out with her and her boyfriend.

Then I also know a friend who has to check with her boyfriend whether he free before she decides to go out or abandon us. We are adults. Why do we have to make decision based on others' decision? This really pissed me off. Are we your backup plan should your date fails to fall through.

I also know one friend who wear clothes based on her boyfriend's preference. She likes purple but her boyfriend don't. Thus she suppresses her liking and following her boyfriend's liking. Can you make your own decision? If that love of yours leave you, will you be lost since your decision is based on someone else?

Another friend of mine is the champion. She appears in gathering only when she breaks up with her boyfriend. Otherwise she disappeared in her love world.

Whatever decision you make, you will have to make sacrifices. If you sacrifice friendship and choose love, then you will lose some friends. If you sacrifice family and choose career, then you will lose it. Thus balance it.